Follow!

To be a leader is to be a follower. True leadership is servant hood.

And to become a good follower you must carefully select your mentors. No one can choose these for you.

These people will be the leaders who will shape your character and teach you how to be a good leader yourself.

As a leader or as a follower I truly believe that you have to be

Patient
Loyal
Honest
Willing


Good communication and a know how to connect are other areas that they both have to be good at.

When two dancers on a dance floor move together as one, the roles they play are well known for them. They feel comfortable together and they trust each other.
They know who is leading and who is following. It takes two to dance and it looks strange if they should be up on the dance floor all by themselves.

That's why, when God wants to lead you, you better know how to follow. To trust in God and to show him that you are willing to go were he tells you to go, to do the things he wants you to do, without hesitation.

Be patient to wait for what He has in stored for you
Be loyal to his word to his teachings
Be honest, God know you inside and out.
Be willing to be a follower of Christ.